Helps you shape your thoughts about the choices you will make about how you want to live the rest of your life, to take away the burden and strain of last-minute decisions, through lists and checklists. 

Helps you find the words to successfully talk about your health issues and your needs with family, friends, and professionals, including suggested language. 


I am often asked "when should I buy this book because everyone I know, including me are healthy and well?"

The answer is that the book is a guide for when an unexpected health event occurs as much as when terminal disease is diagnosed. The unexpected health event may be a disease, or an injury, and either can be life limiting and transforming. 

The  title is daunting to most, because even though we know we are mortal, we expect to live our full life out well into old age. But the title is explicit, being well prepared is critical to ensure you live your life to the full extent no matter how long that may be. Its all about quality of life and how to achieve this quality.


This book

Alan Bingham is an ombudsman with Elder Services, visiting nursing homes & advocating for residents. He worked in hospice and spent most of his career in healthcare

The author

Ensures the last chapter in your life,  or the life of someone you love, is lived according to your wishes. How to get the quality of life you want.

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Read about how to receive the news under the articles tab. This is an abridged version of Chapter 1 in the book.  The next Chapter is on the Family Discussion - sharing this news and making plans for the rest of your life.

Are you ready for the family discussions?

Here’s a way to trigger the discussion.

Send a copy of this book to those you want to talk with about your own end-of-life issues during a seasonal get together. Its a good time because everyone is relaxed and receptive.

Making sure that you get the most from life, and how to plan is something we seldom talk about. This is a guide for what you and your family need to know before you need to know it. It will help you enter into the family discussions, and clear away questions and help to ensure your wishes are fulfilled.

Includes: Checklists. Suggested language for discussions Advance directives information Legal and financial help Caregivers, Where to live Getting the most from precious time Having your wishes followed.

Read the last article on the Articles tab. This was published by Kaiser Health News and NPR pre-Thanksgiving. It may help you in your decisions.

Dying Well Prepared is available from Amazon in both paperback and Kindle formats.